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    I would love to share my story about my recent hookup with a guy who wants me to be his girlfriend. He looks average and pretty laid back since he told me that I'm allowed to hook up with other guys while we're together. As long as I'll give him a heads up about the guys I'm about to bang. Yes, we are in an open-relationship since he's miles away from where I live, he says that he wants me to be satisfied as long as those guys would keep me satisfied and use protection, of course. The best guy I've ever had in years!

  • #2
    It's rare to find someone interested to be in an open relationship and you're one of those lucky ones. I hope everything goes well for both of you!


    • CumbersomeMome
      CumbersomeMome commented
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      It sure is rare! Most couples stay monogamous but sooner or later one of them gets to cheat and looks for another. I just don't get why some people aren't open to this kind of relationship. It's just for physical contact from another person with consent to your partner.

    • Aloha3e4
      Aloha3e4 commented
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      Do you really feel open relationships work out all the time?

  • #3
    I almost had it, an open relationship with my long-term boyfriend but I was too naive back then when he asked me if I wanted to take our relationship into that certain level. We broke up because he cheated his way out of our 'boring' relationship.


    • kranzd
      kranzd commented
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      It was an open relationship so how did he cheat you?
      Open means that both of you would be fine to see other people, right?

  • #4
    And I'm guessing that your open relationship goes on both ways? Are you sure that you're okay with that set up? Because there are cases in which only one of them takes advantage of the situation and the other stays faithful in the relationship


    • Deepah
      Deepah commented
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      I do not think that he would become faithful in that open relationship. For all I know, the men would be the first one to find some flings on an open relationship.

  • #5
    Eh? What is good with that man? Who do you think is in the more advantageous position? He just wants to fuck with you and nothing else. That would be free sex for him whenever he feels like doing it. And you are just an object, I think.


    • krstn10
      krstn10 commented
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      They're only doing it because they're in a long distance relationship and I think that both of them have no plans of travelling just for sex

    • Paylah
      Paylah commented
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      I think it's between both of them. After all, being in an open relationship is okay even if you two are in a long-distance, for some reason they're allowed to fuck other people as long as they use protection and is making sure they'd update each other about it.

    • Muggs
      Muggs commented
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      If the two of you them would make most out of the set up, it would be the one who's good at sweet talking the opposite sex

  • #6
    I do not think that you are really in a open relationship. I think that you are more on friends with benefits kind of a relationship.


    • MagicBAKINGBNM
      MagicBAKINGBNM commented
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      I'd rather call in an open relationship too, based on what she said. But have you tried being friends with benefits with someone?

    • Zach
      Zach commented
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      LoveHeadline I agree with you on that one. If they're really in an open relationship she should have at least mentioned that he was her boyfriend and not just a hookup

  • #7
    I just hope that you're really happy with your situation and not just being sarcastic about it


    • dorranlou
      dorranlou commented
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      It is also possible that she's just telling that to herself so that she would be comfortable with it