I need a closure

[Chloecord]

It`s been 4 years and I still can`t get over one break up it`s like I never got a closure and I`m friends with his new girl friend, his girl and I have never discussed about him it`s like she doesn`t know I dated him and I don`t know she`s dating him. I know it sounds stupid but how can I let go this feeling? I`m also with someone and I`m really happy with him but I just want to know why did he do what he did, questions like was I not good enough, is she better than me still haunt me. It affected me in the worst way and sadly it still has that impact on me, he still in a way matters.

[Nurgina]

Aarrgghhh again a sad crying baby who can't get over her ex bleh!

[bbwbae]

How it is a girl does not talk about their boyfriend to the friend? And you say she doesn't know you are his ex, so then why not discuss him? I don't think she doesn't know about you as his ex she might and that is why she doesn't talk about him with you. You'd never know what's cooking at the back.

[Juicylucy]

I know this is hard but I think you should focus on your guy and let him be.

[lovepill]

You should confront the guy and just ask him just be open and tell him you are having a hard time moving on, you just need to know the reason.

[Hollythehotness]

Why? Why? Why? He's gone you are done with him; he's not worth your time, he LEFT YOU why do you have to stay in his memory! Look at your brand new boy, give him a chance, I'm sure he'll prove himself worthy. You don't have to cry for someone who doesn't want you. I totally understand what you might have felt and how difficult it is but trust me there is no point in knowing what was wrong.

[Lightblood]

I can understand what you are going through; you should ask him directly and be at peace I guess.

[Blowybow]

Babe why don't you go out with me? I can make you forget even your own existence, honey.

[Barbbaby]

I think you should be happy and leave her "the friend" of yours sorry!

[Chloecord]

You guys made me feel so better.Love you all!