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    What are the subtle signs that a relationship is toxic?

  • #2
    Hit me baby one more tiiiiime

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    • dorranlou
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      my loneliness, is killing me

    • Muggs
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      it's britney bitch

    • dorranlou
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      I must confess I still belieeeve

  • #3
    the number 1 thing is you are always fighting, couples fight, it happens, but fighting continued and always bringing stuff from the past into your current situation and weighing each other's faults, you could say you fixed the problem, but did you really forgive and forget?

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    • krstn10
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      It's when you notice your partner become controlling of anything and everything.

    • dorranlou
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      I feel sorry for you that you've experienced that sort of thing

    • KimmieS
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      Let's just say that I always fall for a certain type that's why I always end up on the losing end

  • #4
    You both self centered, you value each other but not enough to put each other's needs first

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    • Girlie23
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      I think that's the complete opposite of what I've just said which might be the worst thing that could happen

    • dorranlou
      dorranlou commented
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      I guess this is coming from your experience. Is it?

    • Girlie23
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      Yes, I'm quite self-centered and I've learned my lesson already

  • #5
    Reminds me of the #maybesheDoesntHitYou. There was a guys there who said she demeans her because of how much he makes and compares her to his other "guy friends" sad really

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  • #6
    There's always a ripple in your trust. Self-centeredness, all take but no give

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    • Girlie23
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      Its hard to be with someone who's self-centered

    • JayDee
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      exactly, better end that relationship before it even begins

  • #7
    You spend so much time fighting about the relationship. While not realizing there isnt even a relationship to fight about anymore

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    • Zach
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      I just heard it in a movie actually

    • dorranlou
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      What movie was that, exactly?

    • Zach
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      Actually forgot the title of the movie already. Will update you guys once I remembered it

  • #8
    They constantly make you feel unworthy, maybe saying nobody else will ever like them. No growth for the relationship or to the both of you as individuals

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    • dorranlou
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      Absolutely, you said it right. Its sad this happens to people though.

  • #9
    If you feel that your partner controls everything from what you wear, to what you must feel. When your own opinion is met with some form or anger. When you feel you must justify everything, and everything becomes your fault, then honey, that's when you know you're in a toxic relationship. Drop everything and run!

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    • jerranour
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      yup tldr, never settle for less

    • CarpetMuncher
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      exactly controlling people like that don't deserve your love or pity

    • jerranour
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      The 3 most common signs I think are, being controlling, non stop narcissism, and never ending drama,

  • #10
    The both of you always argue about everything and always checking on each other

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    • JayDee
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      Seems like you or an ex has trust issues that's why you mentioned always checking on each other

    • dorranlou
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      Awwww! Two people being paranoid and possessive.

    • wanny
      wanny commented
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      Yes, the last few months of a past relationship ended up that way

  • #11
    When they do something for you they will bring it up in fights, I did this and that for you. They make you feel bad about yourself, you feel trapped, there's no real love for each other.
    They're manipulative and they use gaslighting

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    • Krist
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      yeah, that's one big indicator for me that they are counting what they do for you

    • dorranlou
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      There's no way out but to leave.

    • Krist
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      Yeah your right dorranlou

  • #12
    Here my take on toxic bf's/ gf's. They never practice what they preach, they talk a lot of shit about their exes. Hearing "I'm gonna change " a thousand times

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    • lindseysexy
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      Are you going to use all the money that you got from hearing "I'm gonna change" to buy a sex toy

    • Krist
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      Lol I just did it for fun, but you've got a point there.

    • lindseysexy
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      yeah cause the toxic ones are the hardest to spot

  • #13
    It usually starts out with a britney spears song

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    • krstn10
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      I kinda knew that it would be a fail lol

    • dorranlou
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      really what gave it away?

    • krstn10
      krstn10 commented
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      ok ok i get it.

  • #14

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    • kranzd
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      In the dark or medieval ages? lol dorranlou

    • grblng78
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      Lol this is hilarious.

    • kranzd
      kranzd commented
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      It is dear.

  • #15
    If for even a moment you start questioning if your relationship is toxic, highly possible it is,

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    • dorranlou
      dorranlou commented
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      Guess that you're right about that one

    • kranzd
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      I guess yes without even realizing it.
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