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    There's this other guy who is been hitting me up for two weeks now. I was so nice to him and he says he wanted to move in with me in my apartment. We're just friends and a potential fuck-buddy. He told me that on our first meet-up, he'll assess if we're compatible for each other. Before he'll move in with me for good. He says he wants to stay with me and start a new life. He lives miles away from where I am. I'm not sure what he's deal is but he is all flirty and gooey on his chats. Which I'd doubt that I wasn't the only one he's talking to. One time he even told me that he's monogamous even to his fuck-buddies. Should I give it a try and see where this leads us? Or is this a warning sign that I should stay away from guys like this? Our first move would probably be the meet up and see what happens next.

  • #2
    Meet-ups aren't a bad thing. I wanna know what will happen next. I just hope he's not some psychopath or anything lol! Goodluck

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    • 59Alpha
      59Alpha commented
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      They should meet up first. Setting things up is easy to discuss if they've been out to several dates.

    • InsideBoa
      InsideBoa commented
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      Do you have a feeling that the guy might be a psycho or something? lol

  • #3
    I suggest that you two should have a first date first. Go on for third or fourth dates before you even let him stay with you for good.

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    • goodstrngr
      goodstrngr commented
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      I agree you should get to know him better before letting him move into your place.

  • #4
    Maybe he's just fooling around. I'm a guy myself, you should never trust him first. Get to know him better in person!

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    • lindseysexy
      lindseysexy commented
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      I agree. Most guys would just fool girls around. They just want to do something for their benefits without regards to the girls. So, she should be careful with that guy.

    • kranzd
      kranzd commented
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      Does it mean that we shouldn't trust you also since you're also a guy? lol

  • #5
    It sounds like he's doing his best in order to live with you and hookup with you? If you find it too annoying and disturbing, might as well block him

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    • Girlie23
      Girlie23 commented
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      I find it too disturbing that he has the guts to tell her that he wants to move in with her immediately if they're a good match when it comes to sex

  • #6
    Just go on a date with him before you try and pursue being each others fuck buddies. Because there's a chance that he's being flirty with you so that you would agree with being roommates/fuck buddies with him. And are you sure that you wouldn't feel uncomfortable that your fuck buddy is also your roommate?

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    • krstn10
      krstn10 commented
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      Does it mean that you're willing to be roommates with someone just because he's being flirthy with you?

  • #7
    That guy sounds sketchy to me. I would suggest to do a background check on him first before you decide to go out or be roommates with him

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    • KimmieS
      KimmieS commented
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      I agree. Why would someone that you've never met before suddenly wants to be roommates with you? Isn't that a bit scary for you?

  • #8
    Why do we always have first impressions with the people that we meet? Give him chance to show what he really is. You would be able to know him after some time.

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    • CRAZYHEY
      CRAZYHEY commented
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      Why do you think that first impressions are not important?

  • #9
    Originally posted by HarHappyTricked View Post
    It sounds like he's doing his best in order to live with you and hookup with you? If you find it too annoying and disturbing, might as well block him
    And maybe make sure that you have pepper spray on your purse in case he goes all psycho on you

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    • Zach
      Zach commented
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      Are you thinking that he might have been stalking her already without her knowing that's why you want her to be extra careful?

  • #10
    If I were you, I'm going to stop talking to him and block him since he sounds like a creep to me. This "he'll assess if we're compatible for each other. Before he'll move in with me for good. He says he wants to stay with me and start a new life" part of his message is rather disturbing to me. And besides, why would you automatically let him live with you?

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    • #11
      So did you have that date with that psycho already or you've ghosted him? lol

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