Dancing. No Strings Attached?

[CarpetMuncher]

Whenever I go to a bar, with a dance floor, or a club, I generally like to get down (on the dance floor), and have a bit of fun. The problem is when a girl comes up to me, and starts dancing too; well that's not the problem. The problem is that after a short stint of dancing, they leave me be, which I don't have a problem with.

I've been told I'm a good dancer, and I generally think that's why girls like dancing with me (and majority of cases, grinding), but I'm not one to pursue girls that I dance with, because really I'm there just to have some floor. But should I be? Am I passing up a chance to develop a relationship?

I don't know whether it's a case of girls just wanting to have some fun on the dance floor too, or it's like an invitation to go over to where they are, and strike up a conversation (hence the leaving part).

So what do girls really want? Just to have fun night dancing with strangers, with no strings attached, and no expectations thereafter. Or is it a case of trying to hook up with someone?

[dorranlou]

I just like to dance with guys then go back to my friends really...not looking for anything more just wanna have a good time dancing with a few strangers lol

[jerranour]

probably both. some girls want to hook up and some just want to have fun dancing.

[CarpetMuncher]

so which side are you?

[Girlie23]

Are you expecting that the two of you would be banging after dancing?

[CarpetMuncher]

jerranour Yeah I do know and I'm also a dancer that's the reason why. I'm not assuming things like what dorranlou mentioned

[dorranlou]

jerranour have you been with a dancer before?

[kranzd]

I will sure do dude.

[KimmieS]

Even if you're the greatest dancer already but you don't try and chat with the girl that you just danced with, you're really going have hard time finding a girl who's willing to do it with you

[dorranlou]

You're right dancing can't immediately send the message. It should be in words.

[KimmieS]

And try to get to her more by offering her a drink while the two of you are chatting

[errania2]

It actually depends some girls just want to have fun. Like me.

[krstn10]

It really depends especially if we are drunk

[CarpetMuncher]

experienced something like being taken home after dancing? like a one night stand?

[janney]

You should have tried to chat with her and offer her a drink after the two of you danced. You won't get into her panties just because the two of you grinded each others crotches

[lizza]

CarpetMuncher if you offer them a drink it is automatic that you would be the one who is going to pay for it and you don't tell them to pay for it themselves if they don't want to hook up with you

[janney]

CarpetMuncher I'm not that type dude. Maybe you've been hanging out with wrong ladies.

[janney]

sevva3 is right.